Thursday, September 19, 2013

Catch up, Clean Up

Sis 1 here . . .

Time to catch up and clean up what's going on.  BTW--our blogiversary is coming up on December 8th.  Yay us!

The guy I met that I posted about most recently has been totally cut off.  I've told him every which way to Sunday that I'm no longer interested.  And yet . . . he continues to call.  I don't answer and hopefully soon, he will stop.  I don't know what else to do without it becoming some big dramatic thing and I'm just not into that.

Also, the whole thing with Top came to an end.  We evolved to a different kind of relationship, that of really good friends.  We still talk a lot and help each other with different issues--we're each others' sounding boards.  It's a good thing and I consider him one of my best friends.  It was time to move on.

In the meantime, I went to an online dating site.  Kind of a scary thing to do . . . you never know who you are going to meet. In a nutshell--most of the guys online lie just like they do in real life. I went out with three of them (1x each) and was not thrilled.  But then, I met bachelor #4.  Wow!  This guy knocks my socks off.  We're still getting to know each other, but everything so far just clicks.  He is damn near too good to be true, which scares the hell out of me.  I'm not going to go into any details here as I don't want to jinx it, but he's definitely a keeper.

That's my life in a nutshell.  Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Games Will Not Be Tolerated

Sis 1 here...

It's been awhile, and for that, I apologize. Sis 2 and I have been going through a lot in our personal lives and blogging has not been top priority. But, here I am today...with a rant.

I started dating and met a very nice guy. Things jumped off fairly quickly and were going well, but now they've started to go downhill. See, we started texting and talking on the Phone a lot. All well and good, then real life kicked in. School started, my busy season at work started, and time is precious. He is a "local" guy, but is still an hour away. So, seeing him is limited to an occasional evening after work and weekends. Last weekend, I was sick, so I haven't seen him in two weeks.

Now, this wouldn't be so bad, and we are supposed to go out today, but I'm starting to get attitude from him. He calls and gets off the Phone quickly, because he thinks I'm too busy to talk. He says I don't text and call him enough, but when I do, he doesn't answer. Then when he does call or text, he blames me. He thinks I have an attitude.

I just got off the Phone with him. He said he hadn't listened to my voicemail from yesterday because he had just really wanted to sleep. And then has the nerve to say he doesn't want to text and talk that much because "absence makes the heart grow fonder." Yep...he said it, bi-polar mother fucker. I told him that's bullshit and I might see him later...or not. He's reminding me of my ex more and more. That shit will not fly.

What the fuck, dude? You say you don't play games, but that's all you're doing. So...I will see him today, just to tell him to fuck off.

Treat me like a Queen and I'll treat you like a King. Treat me like a game and I'll show you how it's played. Game on!

Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....