Sunday, January 18, 2015

Friends With Benefits?

Sis 2 here ... 

Recently I reconnected with an old boyfriend ... the man that I thought I would marry, the man I have loved deep in my heart ever since the asshole left me when I thought I was prego and that cheated on me during our relationship (oh that could be a whole other rant) and I was so excited to reconnected. 

One big problem -- he is now married. 

Being the mature person I am, we talk and I make sure to keep it light and friendly -- I am not gonna ruin his marriage. Yes we got flirty and talked a lot about what could have been but I would always try to pull us back on track. 

One day a couple of months ago he wants to know if he can ask me a question and says my answer won't change anything ... now we all know that is a big ass lie but I agree. That motherfucker asks me to be "friends with benefits" ... his side bitch, his sleaze ... essentially because he wants that relationship but is too lazy and doesn't want to leave his wife. 

Oh hell no motherfucker ... this sassy sister ain't some side bitch. I am not the weak girl I was 20 years ago - the desperate little twat that took you back time and time again. Oh hell no!

Funny my answer did change things - went from hearing from him daily to crickets chirping in silence. Obviously in this case people don't change and once a sleazy motherfucker, always a sleazy motherfucker. 

This sassy sister ain't stupid ... until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic 

1 comment:

  1. Sis 1 here . . .

    You got this, Sis. And you made the right decision. Like all the rest, he is an asshat!

    Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .