Sis 2 here -- it has been a long time in the coming but finally revisited a talk with the husband. Gave him a letter on Friday saying we need to separate and then had the big conversation Saturday evening. Weight off my shoulders -- he agreed without a fight. We have lived as roommates that share children for years and while he had grown complacent with that arrangement, I grew more and more frustrated. We told the kids on Sunday and both seem to be fine. In typical teenage girl fashion, the daughter wanted to know if that meant she got double of everything. Next big huddle is telling the crazy old people aka my parents.
For now (due to financial constraints) we will remain in the same household, I have moved into another bedroom and we will begin the process of separation.
Will keep everyone posted as the process continues but for now ... keeping it #sassyandsarcastic