Thursday, January 16, 2014

Why Do Men Want to Sext . . . Instantly?

Sis 1 here . . .

Ok, so you know I've been out there dating for awhile now.  I tried the online thing--met a few guys and kicked them all to the curb.  Some of them were nice, some were really hot, but all of them play games and lie.  Oh--that's a whole other blog topic.  What I want to know is, why they all want to sext me almost instantly?  I mean really . . . I'm not a prude and I can write some pretty tawdry words.  In fact, I can rock your world just in a text.  But, that doesn't mean that when we first meet that I want to do that or want you to.

I've had some guys after the first text start talking about what they want to do to me or me to them in very graphic terms . . . Sometimes accompanied by pictures.  Come on man!  I'm trying to make sure my teenage son doesn't sext his junk to anyone and grown ass men are doing it?  BTW--you might also want to wait on sending you picture that way . . . It's not always a go-getter, if you know what I mean.

So, here is my advice to you boys that want a real woman . . . Stop sexting and start talking.  Take her for coffee or a drink.   Talk about your life and hopes.  Listen to her life and hopes.  If you have some connections there, go out again.  Rinse and repeat.  You should not be sexting anyone, unless you're in a committed relationship with them.  Then it's fun and spices up your love life.  If you're not in a committed relationship and sexting, then you're just a pervert.


Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . .


  1. This is one of the reasons women who are in committed and so/so relationships stay in them. Has it really come to this? My Love and I have been together 7 years and we have Never sexted. I just don't get it. I guess I'm modest, but seriously I don't think I ever want to get a text with a photo of...God only knows what. Just me...
    I had no idea this is what Men think is what a women wants or needs. So sorry to hear that you have to put up with this type of harassment. Can you report this behavior to the online site?
    Keep searching, the man of your dreams is out there and one day you'll find each other.
    Barbara @

  2. Don't get me wrong, I have sexted and do it very well, but it was within a committed relationship and I still trust that person implicitly, as he does me (we just can't get our timing right to be together--different blog topic). It adds some spice and can be fun if both parties agree to it.

    Thanks for the review.

    My concern is to just automatically go there. It's so sad. And too many women fall for it. As far as notifying the authorities, it's not really worth my while, and once I get done telling them off, they probably can't get it up again anyway and will think twice about doing it to someone else.

    Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .