Ok, so you know I've been out there dating for awhile now. I tried the online thing--met a few guys and kicked them all to the curb. Some of them were nice, some were really hot, but all of them play games and lie. Oh--that's a whole other blog topic. What I want to know is, why they all want to sext me almost instantly? I mean really . . . I'm not a prude and I can write some pretty tawdry words. In fact, I can rock your world just in a text. But, that doesn't mean that when we first meet that I want to do that or want you to.
I've had some guys after the first text start talking about what they want to do to me or me to them in very graphic terms . . . Sometimes accompanied by pictures. Come on man! I'm trying to make sure my teenage son doesn't sext his junk to anyone and grown ass men are doing it? BTW--you might also want to wait on sending you picture that way . . . It's not always a go-getter, if you know what I mean.
So, here is my advice to you boys that want a real woman . . . Stop sexting and start talking. Take her for coffee or a drink. Talk about your life and hopes. Listen to her life and hopes. If you have some connections there, go out again. Rinse and repeat. You should not be sexting anyone, unless you're in a committed relationship with them. Then it's fun and spices up your love life. If you're not in a committed relationship and sexting, then you're just a pervert.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . .