Sis 1 here . . .
I just don't get it. I keep meeting these "great" guys, but they are flawed. Now, I'm not looking for perfection, but these are big flaws . . . like rips in their moral fabric. They lie, they cheat, they are only looking for sex, they are possessive (like scary possessive), they present themselves one way and then their true character comes out. I'm so over this.
And believe me, I'm not trying to jump into any relationships, but I would like to take what they say at face value. Unfortunately, I can't. If I did, I'd be hurt every time. I don't put my heart into any of these encounters, thank goodness. But, it bothers me because I want to see the best in everyone and because I am totally honest and straight forward with them. They say they are, but the truth always comes out.
I'm not ready to give up . . . I know the right one is out there. My question is how many frogs to I have to kiss to find my prince?
SMDH and moving on.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .
Wednesday, November 13, 2013
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Dating and Getting Out There
Sis 1 here . . .
I've been on a dating website for a couple of months and I'm enjoying myself. I've met a few men and gone out with a few of them. Some dates are better than others, but they all have a couple of things in common and I really want some answers.
1. Every man I've met either just talking on line or actually meeting in person says the same shit . . . I'm honest, dependable, don't play games, etc. Guess what, none are honest or dependable--although there are varying stages of each, and every single damn one of them plays games. SMDH!
2. Every one of them says they want a serious relationship, to be monogamous, to love me forever. Guess what . . . they all lie. They probably all want that, but beforehand, they all want a booty call, friends with benefits, etc. Some might be worthwhile, but it's the lying that gets me. Tell me what you want, and you might get lucky. LOL!
3. Every one of them says they will pay attention to me. Now, I'm not a high maintenance kinda gal, but I do like to have attention paid to me on a near constant basis. So . . . if you want me, then you need to text, call, visit and respond to texts and calls, follow through and actually text and call when you say you will.
Now . . . I know that I have some high expectations here for initial dating, but seriously, be a man, tell me the truth, and let's move on. We may work out. We may not. But, by lying and playing games, you'll never get anywhere with me.
So, I'll keep looking, keep dating, and keep on keeping on. I'm gonna have fun, have some laughs, and maybe even get laid once in awhile. LOL!
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .
I've been on a dating website for a couple of months and I'm enjoying myself. I've met a few men and gone out with a few of them. Some dates are better than others, but they all have a couple of things in common and I really want some answers.
1. Every man I've met either just talking on line or actually meeting in person says the same shit . . . I'm honest, dependable, don't play games, etc. Guess what, none are honest or dependable--although there are varying stages of each, and every single damn one of them plays games. SMDH!
2. Every one of them says they want a serious relationship, to be monogamous, to love me forever. Guess what . . . they all lie. They probably all want that, but beforehand, they all want a booty call, friends with benefits, etc. Some might be worthwhile, but it's the lying that gets me. Tell me what you want, and you might get lucky. LOL!
3. Every one of them says they will pay attention to me. Now, I'm not a high maintenance kinda gal, but I do like to have attention paid to me on a near constant basis. So . . . if you want me, then you need to text, call, visit and respond to texts and calls, follow through and actually text and call when you say you will.
Now . . . I know that I have some high expectations here for initial dating, but seriously, be a man, tell me the truth, and let's move on. We may work out. We may not. But, by lying and playing games, you'll never get anywhere with me.
So, I'll keep looking, keep dating, and keep on keeping on. I'm gonna have fun, have some laughs, and maybe even get laid once in awhile. LOL!
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
To Keep or Not to Keep ... that is the question
Sis 2 here --
So I am finally getting closer to being able to file for divorce - filing fee has been saved, paperwork has been printed and I am nearly at my wits end dealing with the soon to be ex ... and then bam, reading through the paperwork I strike upon a question I hadn't fully thought through ...
Does the wife want to keep her married name or return to her maiden name????
Shit -- I had it in the back of my mind but hadn't really thought about it. I thought I knew what I wanted to do but the more I think about the idea, the more confused I get. I see pros and cons to keeping it vs returning to maiden name.
What to do, what to do .... so I am throwing it out to all of you! Give me the pros and cons that you see and weigh in on whether I retain the married name or return to my maiden name.
While I decide ... keep it Sassy and Sarcastic.
So I am finally getting closer to being able to file for divorce - filing fee has been saved, paperwork has been printed and I am nearly at my wits end dealing with the soon to be ex ... and then bam, reading through the paperwork I strike upon a question I hadn't fully thought through ...
Does the wife want to keep her married name or return to her maiden name????
Shit -- I had it in the back of my mind but hadn't really thought about it. I thought I knew what I wanted to do but the more I think about the idea, the more confused I get. I see pros and cons to keeping it vs returning to maiden name.
What to do, what to do .... so I am throwing it out to all of you! Give me the pros and cons that you see and weigh in on whether I retain the married name or return to my maiden name.
While I decide ... keep it Sassy and Sarcastic.
Monday, October 7, 2013
Bruised But Not Broken
Sis 1 here...
My ego is bruised, but my heart and head are in tact. You played me or maybe you thought you were sincere. Either way, a real man would have the balls to tell me good bye. I know, you probably got a little scared with the bit of drama you were exposed to, but honey...if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
So, play on player. I've moved on and will keep true to me. BTW...don't worry, I won't try to trash your reputation. I'm sure you'll fuck someone else over that will do that for you. Oh and your continuing studies with God? Yeah...you might want to work on that...I'm just sayin', because my friend, Karma, is a total bitch.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
My ego is bruised, but my heart and head are in tact. You played me or maybe you thought you were sincere. Either way, a real man would have the balls to tell me good bye. I know, you probably got a little scared with the bit of drama you were exposed to, but honey...if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
So, play on player. I've moved on and will keep true to me. BTW...don't worry, I won't try to trash your reputation. I'm sure you'll fuck someone else over that will do that for you. Oh and your continuing studies with God? Yeah...you might want to work on that...I'm just sayin', because my friend, Karma, is a total bitch.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
Sunday, October 6, 2013
Uncle
Sis 1 here...
I guess I jinxed it. I thought things were going well, but haven't heard from The Special One in two days. What? Am I 16 again? Do people really do 180s in just two days? This non communication is not what I've learned about him. I mean seriously, when his mom had a stroke, he still checked in and said hi. So, I give up.
No more worrying about guys and what they think. No more putting myself out there. I've given so many people benefit of the doubt and they only end up hurting me.
Men love to say that they don't play games, but so far, that has been my experience. So, I give up.
I'm hurt. I'm disillusioned. I'm not impressed with the human race. So, I give up.
Until someone else comes along to get my hopes up again. And then, who knows. Maybe I'll roll this post out again. Or maybe, it will be great. Or maybe, it will be the for real last straw.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
I guess I jinxed it. I thought things were going well, but haven't heard from The Special One in two days. What? Am I 16 again? Do people really do 180s in just two days? This non communication is not what I've learned about him. I mean seriously, when his mom had a stroke, he still checked in and said hi. So, I give up.
No more worrying about guys and what they think. No more putting myself out there. I've given so many people benefit of the doubt and they only end up hurting me.
Men love to say that they don't play games, but so far, that has been my experience. So, I give up.
I'm hurt. I'm disillusioned. I'm not impressed with the human race. So, I give up.
Until someone else comes along to get my hopes up again. And then, who knows. Maybe I'll roll this post out again. Or maybe, it will be great. Or maybe, it will be the for real last straw.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
Friday, October 4, 2013
The Special One
Sis 1 here...
I think I've found that special guy. In fact, we'll refer to him as The Special One. It seems like we are clicking on every level. We don't necessarily agree on everything, but we talk about and discuss it anyway. I don't want to jinx anything, so keeping it vague here, but stay tuned for updates.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
I think I've found that special guy. In fact, we'll refer to him as The Special One. It seems like we are clicking on every level. We don't necessarily agree on everything, but we talk about and discuss it anyway. I don't want to jinx anything, so keeping it vague here, but stay tuned for updates.
Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic....
Thursday, September 19, 2013
Catch up, Clean Up
Sis 1 here . . .
Time to catch up and clean up what's going on. BTW--our blogiversary is coming up on December 8th. Yay us!
The guy I met that I posted about most recently has been totally cut off. I've told him every which way to Sunday that I'm no longer interested. And yet . . . he continues to call. I don't answer and hopefully soon, he will stop. I don't know what else to do without it becoming some big dramatic thing and I'm just not into that.
Also, the whole thing with Top came to an end. We evolved to a different kind of relationship, that of really good friends. We still talk a lot and help each other with different issues--we're each others' sounding boards. It's a good thing and I consider him one of my best friends. It was time to move on.
In the meantime, I went to an online dating site. Kind of a scary thing to do . . . you never know who you are going to meet. In a nutshell--most of the guys online lie just like they do in real life. I went out with three of them (1x each) and was not thrilled. But then, I met bachelor #4. Wow! This guy knocks my socks off. We're still getting to know each other, but everything so far just clicks. He is damn near too good to be true, which scares the hell out of me. I'm not going to go into any details here as I don't want to jinx it, but he's definitely a keeper.
That's my life in a nutshell. Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .
Time to catch up and clean up what's going on. BTW--our blogiversary is coming up on December 8th. Yay us!
The guy I met that I posted about most recently has been totally cut off. I've told him every which way to Sunday that I'm no longer interested. And yet . . . he continues to call. I don't answer and hopefully soon, he will stop. I don't know what else to do without it becoming some big dramatic thing and I'm just not into that.
Also, the whole thing with Top came to an end. We evolved to a different kind of relationship, that of really good friends. We still talk a lot and help each other with different issues--we're each others' sounding boards. It's a good thing and I consider him one of my best friends. It was time to move on.
In the meantime, I went to an online dating site. Kind of a scary thing to do . . . you never know who you are going to meet. In a nutshell--most of the guys online lie just like they do in real life. I went out with three of them (1x each) and was not thrilled. But then, I met bachelor #4. Wow! This guy knocks my socks off. We're still getting to know each other, but everything so far just clicks. He is damn near too good to be true, which scares the hell out of me. I'm not going to go into any details here as I don't want to jinx it, but he's definitely a keeper.
That's my life in a nutshell. Until next time, keep it #sassyandsarcastic . . . .
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